Third grade teacher Ms.Hinsley is giving instructions to the class about a new cooperative group assignment.As she speaks,Mick makes loud crashing sounds with his mouth.Which of the following confrontations delivers an "I" message to Mick?
A)"I don't like your noises while I'm giving instructions.You are showing disrespect and need to stop now."
B)"You are interfering with the lesson and disturbing the other students.I need you to stop and listen like everyone else."
C)"You're making loud noises while I'm giving instructions.Your noises interfere with my teaching and make me feel disrespected."
D)"I'm annoyed by your noises.You have distracted the whole class,and I'd like for you to apologize."

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Choice C confronts Mick's behavior using an "I" message by stating how his noises interfere with the teacher's teaching and make her feel disrespected. This approach is more effective in addressing the behavior without attacking or blaming the individual.

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