Frances is recently divorced. She weeps openly and often. As a counselor and group leader, you too have gone through a painful divorce. Which of the following is not an appropriate response?
A) "I know exactly what you are going through."
B) "The emotions you are experiencing might be more common than you think."
C) "Would you like to talk more about your reactions?"
D) "Can I explain to you how I coped with my similar situation?"

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Quizplus · Accepted Answer

It is not appropriate for the counselor/group leader to assume that they know exactly what Frances is going through, as everyone's experience with divorce is unique. It is important to validate her feelings and provide support, but not to minimize her individual experience. Choices B, C, and D are all appropriate responses as they provide empathy, reassurance, and an opportunity for further discussion.

Frances Is Recently Divorced