When a partner uses pseudo-de-escalation to end a relationship, he or she might say,
A)"I want to end this relationship."
B)"Let's just be friends."
C)"I've been miserable for a long time in this relationship."
D)"Let me tell you why I'm unhappy with you."

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Pseudo-de-escalation is a manipulative tactic where a person pretends to be kind or gentle but is actually trying to undermine the other person's self-esteem or manipulate them in some way. Saying "Let's just be friends" is a common example of this tactic because it makes the other person feel like they are overreacting or being too emotional if they are upset about the breakup. It also implies that the relationship wasn't serious or meaningful enough to continue, which is hurtful to hear. The other options (A, C, D) are more direct and honest ways to end a relationship.

When a Partner Uses Pseudo-De-Escalation to End a Relationship, He