In the Past, Paul Has Insisted on Going to a Restaurant

In the past, Paul has insisted on going to a restaurant and to a movie on each of his dates with Danielle. Last night, however, Danielle asked Paul if they could go bowling and to grab coffee instead. In response, Paul conceded to go bowling but asked if they could try a different restaurant in lieu of getting coffee. Which of the following dialectical tensions were Paul and Danielle wrestling with?

A) Stability and change
B) Openness and closedness
C) Autonomy and connectedness
D) Presence and absence
E) Expression and privacy