You have two phone conversations back to back: one is with a friend of yours, a cisgender woman that goes to your college; the other is with a cisgender man that you know from high school. Both tell you that they hooked up last weekend, but it didn't go that great (it was consensual but a little awkward, they didn't seem that into it and neither did the person they hooked up with). In your essay, you can fill in the details of these conversations. Then, talk about what questions you'd ask and advice you'd give to each of these people. If you were going to draw from Rebecca Tuvel's essay, what would you want to say?

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The Answer is -Detail the conversations that the author would have with their friends whose experiences are similar, but who are differently positioned with respect to their gendered experience of this context.
-Apply Rebecca Tuvel's concepts about gendered oppression and casual sex to these conversations (her discussion of affirmative consent's insufficiency, the pressures of good femininity, etc.).

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