Michael is seeking counseling because he is lonely and is looking for ways to meet people. You suggest various places to meet others, yet each suggestion is met with a "Yes, but" response. Frustrated, you sense that you are working harder than Michael to generate solutions. You should
A) tell him how frustrated and discouraged you feel.
B) renegotiate with the client what he wants.
C) continue to suggest other alternatives until Michael reacts positively.
D) refer the client to another person who may offer better suggestions.

Question

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Renegotiating with the client what he wants is important in this scenario because it addresses the underlying issue of Michael's resistance to solutions, rather than focusing on the counselor's feelings (A), persisting in an unproductive strategy (C), or referring him away prematurely (D). This approach encourages Michael to take more responsibility for his part in the counseling process and clarifies his goals and willingness to change.

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