If your girlfriend seems to have anger management issues and in the midst of a fight with you resorts to saying,"You don't really love me" and "You are in a mood again," she is displaying "You" language.

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"You" language is characterized by the use of accusatory statements that blame the other person, rather than taking responsibility for one's own emotions and actions. In this case, the girlfriend is using "You" language by accusing the person of not really loving her and being in a mood, without acknowledging her own anger and how it may be contributing to the argument.

If Your Girlfriend Seems to Have Anger Management Issues and in the Midst